Nobody loses friends on purpose. nahbar makes sure you don’t lose them by accident.
Improve relationships with the people who matter to you. Use nahbar to never lose track of them.
What can nahbar do?
As a personal relationship manager, nahbar offers features that can help you stay in touch with the people who matter most. For everyone who wants to keep people close, nahbar provides a range of tools to support you.
Contacts at a Glance
Import contacts from your address book and keep an overview of the people who matter to you.
Personality Profiles
Better understand the people around you with OCEAN-based personality profiles for every contact.
Visit Logs
Record conversations and meetings – with ratings and notes for every encounter.
Smart Reminders
Let nahbar remind you before important relationships start to fade.
Conversation Insights
Get tailored conversation topics and hints based on your contact’s profile. Runs fully on-device on modern iPhones.
100% Privacy
Your data stays on your iPhone. AI features run fully on-device on modern iPhones.
Discover what your relationships reveal
Every encounter leaves an impression. nahbar helps you capture these moments – honestly, personally, and just for you. Over time, you’ll discover what truly makes your relationships special.
Entirely your nahbar
- What type are you? nahbar adapts. Your OCEAN profile: discover your own strengths and patterns.
- Likes & dislikes: keep track of what moves you.
- Visit log & ratings: stay on top of every encounter.
- 100% private: no cloud, no servers – just you.
No moment goes unnoticed
- Capture encounters – quickly, right after the meeting.
- Rate every visit across four categories.
- Moods & impressions – exactly as you experienced them.
- Recognize patterns in your relationships over time.
- Discover who is good for you.
- Conversation topics & notes always at hand.
Smart. Private. On your iPhone.
Sometimes a gentle nudge helps. A suggestion for what to talk about next time. A read on how an encounter actually felt. That’s where the AI in nahbar quietly steps in — and it does so as privately as an iPhone allows.
On modern iPhones: everything stays with you
Got an iPhone 15 Pro or newer? Then nahbar uses Apple Intelligence right on your device. Your notes, your personality questionnaire answers, your impressions after a visit — none of it leaves your iPhone. No server, no cloud, no internet needed.
On older iPhones: a safe plan B
If your iPhone doesn’t yet support Apple Intelligence, we use a vetted cloud service so the AI features are still there for you. Encrypted. Without anything being stored. And you’ll always see at a glance which path is being used.
You decide
In the settings, you can choose whether nahbar is allowed to go online at all — even if your device could use the cloud. We think this choice belongs to you.
“nahbar helps me every day to better understand people and manage my relationships with them.”
Max
lives with autism
Read more about how nahbar can help you
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nahbar 1.0.7 – Recurring Moments, On-Device AI, and More
Version 1.0.7 brings editable moments, up to 5 photos per moment, recurring meetings, Apple Foundation Models as the primary AI backend, an expanded Dopamin Mode, and a simplified single Max plan.
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Nurture What You Have, Don’t Just Find What’s New: nahbar vs. Bumble
A stay-in-touch app helps you nurture the people who already matter. Here’s how nahbar differs from dating apps like Bumble.
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nahbar 1.0.6 – Faster Capture, More Photos, Easier Onboarding
Version 1.0.6 adds quick buttons for moments and todos in the Today view, multiple photos per moment, toggleable AI suggestions, and a faster onboarding without the personality test up front.
Let’s stay in touch
Got a question, an idea, or need a hand? We’d love to hear from you.